Comments on: Not Myself http://ptlawmom.com/2009/07/not-myself/ Life, Love, Lunacy and the Law Tue, 09 Mar 2010 01:36:04 +0000 http://wordpress.org/ hourly 1 By: trannyhead http://ptlawmom.com/2009/07/not-myself/comment-page-1/#comment-12125 trannyhead Wed, 22 Jul 2009 12:41:07 +0000 http://ptlawmom.com/2009/07/not-myself/#comment-12125 I, too, am cautiously optimistic. Glad you're happy ... though I'm of the live alone for a while school of thought. But I'm a naysayer, so I can shove it! :-D I know I've been totally MIA, lately, and have been a lame blogger who doesn't read other people's blogs. I'm playing catch-up. I, too, am cautiously optimistic. Glad you’re happy … though I’m of the live alone for a while school of thought. But I’m a naysayer, so I can shove it! :-D

I know I’ve been totally MIA, lately, and have been a lame blogger who doesn’t read other people’s blogs. I’m playing catch-up.

]]> By: MommaSunshine http://ptlawmom.com/2009/07/not-myself/comment-page-1/#comment-12119 MommaSunshine Tue, 21 Jul 2009 17:52:45 +0000 http://ptlawmom.com/2009/07/not-myself/#comment-12119 Good for you!!! Someone said to me once: "Life is fleeting. If we're given a chance to be happy, then we should grab it up." Glad to see that you're so happy. :) Good for you!!!

Someone said to me once: “Life is fleeting. If we’re given a chance to be happy, then we should grab it up.”

Glad to see that you’re so happy. :)

]]> By: slp http://ptlawmom.com/2009/07/not-myself/comment-page-1/#comment-12102 slp Sat, 18 Jul 2009 01:58:47 +0000 http://ptlawmom.com/2009/07/not-myself/#comment-12102 You go Proto Attorney, ditto what you said x 1000!!! Glad that life is absolutely fantastic for you! You go Proto Attorney, ditto what you said x 1000!!! Glad that life is absolutely fantastic for you!

]]> By: Proto Attorney http://ptlawmom.com/2009/07/not-myself/comment-page-1/#comment-12100 Proto Attorney Fri, 17 Jul 2009 17:35:12 +0000 http://ptlawmom.com/2009/07/not-myself/#comment-12100 I'm very excited for you. You seem to be in a great place right now, and in a happy, supportive relationship. Congrats on moving in together! Just make sure (and I've been in this position, I'm speaking from experience), that in the course of your relationship, you don't make the mistake of putting all of your happiness onto Mr. V to make up for the misery of the past. Your personal happiness, sense of worth, and wholeness of self must come from you, and not any other person. It's a lot of pressure to put on another person, and also, you need to be happy with yourself before you can truly be happy with someone else. You've been through a lot, and the work isn't done once you find a wonderful man to love you like you deserve to be loved and treat you like you deserve to be treated... it's just the beginning! Enjoy your new living arrangements! You have a fabulous adventure ahead! I’m very excited for you. You seem to be in a great place right now, and in a happy, supportive relationship. Congrats on moving in together!

Just make sure (and I’ve been in this position, I’m speaking from experience), that in the course of your relationship, you don’t make the mistake of putting all of your happiness onto Mr. V to make up for the misery of the past. Your personal happiness, sense of worth, and wholeness of self must come from you, and not any other person. It’s a lot of pressure to put on another person, and also, you need to be happy with yourself before you can truly be happy with someone else. You’ve been through a lot, and the work isn’t done once you find a wonderful man to love you like you deserve to be loved and treat you like you deserve to be treated… it’s just the beginning!

Enjoy your new living arrangements! You have a fabulous adventure ahead!

]]> By: T http://ptlawmom.com/2009/07/not-myself/comment-page-1/#comment-12099 T Fri, 17 Jul 2009 17:02:17 +0000 http://ptlawmom.com/2009/07/not-myself/#comment-12099 Wow. I'm not even being cautious. I say GO GIRL! Congratulations. I'm happy that you're happy! :) Wow. I’m not even being cautious. I say GO GIRL!

Congratulations. I’m happy that you’re happy! :)

]]> By: Meg http://ptlawmom.com/2009/07/not-myself/comment-page-1/#comment-12098 Meg Fri, 17 Jul 2009 14:29:52 +0000 http://ptlawmom.com/2009/07/not-myself/#comment-12098 I am cautiously optimistic for you. I like him. I am cautiously optimistic for you. I like him.

]]> By: k http://ptlawmom.com/2009/07/not-myself/comment-page-1/#comment-12097 k Fri, 17 Jul 2009 12:49:28 +0000 http://ptlawmom.com/2009/07/not-myself/#comment-12097 I wondered....it sounds like the right time and all that. Glad to hear you are being optimistically cautious. I really do hope this works out for you--you really do deserve it. I wondered….it sounds like the right time and all that. Glad to hear you are being optimistically cautious. I really do hope this works out for you–you really do deserve it.

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