I had a second date with the Guy With No Blog Name tonight. I really like him. No question marks. No red flags. No concerns. And it scares the HELL out of me. And I don’t want to hear you all saying “slow down, don’t get ahead of yourself.” Believe me, I know. He has a four dates with no sex rule which is great because it is giving us a chance to really get to know each other (it also SUCKS!!!). And we are talking a lot about our lives, our families, our philosophies. I know love at first sight is cliche and many of you will think I am nuts to even say it. That is too fast and unexpected or out of the blue. And I don’t want to jinx it by saying that. Maybe I’ll be back next week regretting those words. Or maybe, 50 years from now, I’ll look back and know that I knew just as strongly now as I will then that he is amazing. (I know, I know, getting too far ahead of myself. But, seriously, wow…). And, yeah, he is older, more realistic, etc., but still crushing hard on me, too. Those of you who are my real-life Facebook friends can see for yourselves. Oh, and Date 3 will be him cooking for me, yay.
Owns own home
Lots of close friends
Close to his family
Loves kids and wants some more
Smoker (but he has just started prescription medication to stop. I told him that if he doesn’t stop, we will stop No ifs, ands or buts)
Overweight (yes, this is an issue, but not a dealbreaker. He can work on it for the sake of his health. I think he is cute so I don’t care but he should care for his health and I know he does and it’s something he works on.)
That’s all I’m going to write for now. It’s silly but I really do like this guy and I don’t want to say too much. Don’t want to jinx things or overstate things, especially when I need more dates to even really be sure where we are at. Still… wow…