Comments on: Frustration http://ptlawmom.com/2008/09/humiliation-2/ Life, Love, Lunacy and the Law Tue, 09 Mar 2010 01:36:04 +0000 http://wordpress.org/ hourly 1 By: (In)Sanity Gal http://ptlawmom.com/2008/09/humiliation-2/comment-page-1/#comment-8495 (In)Sanity Gal Wed, 10 Sep 2008 15:20:57 +0000 http://ptlawmom.com/2008/09/09/humiliation-2/#comment-8495 PT, this post made me so sad, partially because I connected with it so much. Living as a lesbian, my issue wouldn't seem to be with men, but as the daughter of a cheating father, it's disturbing how those fears hang on no matter what. Men, women, whoever. I'm sending good thoughts out to you and hoping that today is looking better. (P.S. I used to frequent your blog as Quirky - new blog now, and I'd love to see you over there!) PT, this post made me so sad, partially because I connected with it so much. Living as a lesbian, my issue wouldn’t seem to be with men, but as the daughter of a cheating father, it’s disturbing how those fears hang on no matter what. Men, women, whoever. I’m sending good thoughts out to you and hoping that today is looking better.

(P.S. I used to frequent your blog as Quirky – new blog now, and I’d love to see you over there!)

]]> By: BS http://ptlawmom.com/2008/09/humiliation-2/comment-page-1/#comment-8494 BS Tue, 09 Sep 2008 20:11:09 +0000 http://ptlawmom.com/2008/09/09/humiliation-2/#comment-8494 "Wiring" has nothing to do with being faithful in a relationship. Never, ever let a guy use the "men are just wired" differently as a justification for infidelity. Both men and women still find other people attractive, even when they are in a relationship. But that's not the point. The point is, when you have committed yourself to a relationship, the trade-off is loyalty, trust, and devotion in exchange for sleeping with multiple partners. If some man doesn't think that tradeoff is worth it, then he shouldn't be in a monogamous relationship. But many men are willing to make that exchange. “Wiring” has nothing to do with being faithful in a relationship. Never, ever let a guy use the “men are just wired” differently as a justification for infidelity. Both men and women still find other people attractive, even when they are in a relationship. But that’s not the point. The point is, when you have committed yourself to a relationship, the trade-off is loyalty, trust, and devotion in exchange for sleeping with multiple partners. If some man doesn’t think that tradeoff is worth it, then he shouldn’t be in a monogamous relationship. But many men are willing to make that exchange.

]]> By: Christa http://ptlawmom.com/2008/09/humiliation-2/comment-page-1/#comment-8493 Christa Tue, 09 Sep 2008 14:05:06 +0000 http://ptlawmom.com/2008/09/09/humiliation-2/#comment-8493 No hon, all men are not wired the same. Men CAN be pigs, but not all ARE. Many have the right boundaries... and they care more than you might think. (((HUGS))) More in email! No hon, all men are not wired the same. Men CAN be pigs, but not all ARE. Many have the right boundaries… and they care more than you might think. (((HUGS))) More in email!

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