Archive for July 24th, 2008

July 24th, 2008  Posted at   Health
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If you’ve been reading my blog for a while, you know I had gastric bypass surgery in 2001 and am now suffering the consequences (malnutrition, peripheral neuropathy, small bowel obstructions, etc.) Self Magazine has an article in this month’s issue on several people who have also had major complications. While many of the WLS cheerleaders are PISSED that this article is even out there (cause it’s a miracle cure, they’ll tell you), I wish I had known then what I know now. I probably would have still done something but perhaps it would have been the then-new Lap Band procedure instead of the intestinal-rerouting, malabsorptive gastric bypass procedure.

You can click on Health in my Categories links to read more about my struggle, which started with severe B12 deficiency after my son was born in 2003.

July 24th, 2008  Posted at   Dating

I can see you guys popping in to check on me to see if I’ve posted and I assume from the frequency that you are worried. (Hi Sarah, Bkllnbutterflye and Baker Hughes). I’m doing well, I promise. Just getting through the week, avoiding packing stuff and working hard. Yesterday I picked up Jenny McCarthy’s book, “Life Laughs”, for a bit of light reading and “He’s Just Not That Into You” so I can someday have a clue. Also ordered a ton from Amazon:

The Emotionally Abusive Relationship: How to Stop Being Abused and How to Stop Abusing

101 Things I Learned AFTER My Divorce

Not Your Mother’s Divorce: A Practical, Girlfriend-to-Girlfriend Guide to Surviving the End of a Young Marriage

Fifteen Minutes of Shame

Mom, There’s A Man In The Kitchen And He’s Wearing Your Robe: The Single Mother’s Guide to Dating Well without Parenting Poorly

Sex And the Single Mom: The Essential Guide to Dating, Mating And Relating

Single Mom Seeking: Playdates, Blind Dates, and Other Dispatches from the Dating World

The Manual: A True Bad Boy Explains How Men Think, Date, and Mate–and What Women Can Do to Come Out on Top

Romancing The Web: A Therapist’s Guide To The Finer Points Of Online Dating