I think I vomited a little in my mouth reading the tale of this baby snatched from its mother’s breast by ICE officers. How can they live with themselves?!?
Archive for November 9th, 2007
Recalls
Pumpkinhead has been begging, pleading and carrying on since early 2007 about one toy he’s dying to have for Christmas. We plan to keep it low-key this year because he is way spoiled already, but both Chapin and I promised him he could have this toy. So when it went on sale last week at Amazon, I bought it. YEP, it’s AquaDots, the GhB-producing, coma-inducing toy.
I haven’t been too concerned about the recent lead recalls because only one of Pumpkinhead’s toys was affected (which I returned) and also because he’s never been one to put toys in his mouth. But this is getting RIDICULOUS!!! Read the rest of this entry »
Poked and Prodded
I’m back from the doctor’s office. A quick summary:
1) She totally agreed that I need a new neurologist and gave me a few names, but also suggested that I talk to other gastric bypass patients who are suffering from neuropathy and find out if any live near me and have a specialist they would recommend. She said that because these effects typically come up 5-10 years after surgery, most people have stopped seeing their surgeon by then. It used to be that surgeons would do all the follow-up but these days, due in part to insurance reimbursement (or lack thereof), the surgeons tend to cut and run and have no idea what is happening to their post-ops. So I’m off to the “WLS Gone Wrong” boards to see if I can find some people to speak with.
2) She was just as shocked as the pharmacist that the neurologist put me on such a rapid dose of the Neurontin. I told her I called and was told that it was right. She said she typically makes patients do a week of one pill at night, followed by a week of two pills, then finally up to thre per day. Now that I’ve done four pills per day, she said I can either slow down and try to work my way up or just push through. With exams coming up in a few weeks, I think it’s better to push through.
3) She said she would have just upped my Cymbalta and not put me on the Neurontin, but I told her about the unpleasant Bow Chicka Bow Wow side effects and that changed her mind (apparently there’s nothing she would prescribe for women in that category). She agreed that Neurontin was a good choice over the super-weight-gaining Amitryptelene. She did NOT, however, agree with the neurologist’s decision for me to stop Cymbalta cold turkey and told me my one day off/one day one approach was good and that I should do that for a total of two weeks and then do another two weeks at every three days and so on. I love my PCP.
4) My Thiamine level has never been tested. Ever.
According to various studies, this could be the answer to why I’m having the neuropathy. That and the low Vitamin D. So she tested my Thiamine and my D and my B12. She also told me to start weekly B12 instead of monthly.
4) In terms of stopping future nerve damage, she said that maintaining my vitamin levels is the most important thing. She wants to do bloodwork every three months and I may need to do some more IV therapy. If they cannot control things that way, she wants to send me to an Endocrinologist because apparently they are better at dealing with these things than a hematologist. Interesting stuff.
So all in all a good visit. I was a bit (okay a lot!) weepy (damn medication side effects!), but she toook about 30 minutes with me and made me feel so much better. Big difference from the neurologist who made me feel like this was all my fault and that she could care less about the potential for future problems as long as she could control my pain now with whatever medication she had on hand.
The bloodwork took like 15 minutes because my blood is just NOT flowing fast (darn hypotension. Now I’m back at work and, even though my appointment took FOREVER, I still have to take lunch because… the labor and employment partner I’ve been wanting to lunch with since July called up yesterday to see if I’m free today!
So here I am in my suit and lots of makeup to make me look like I feel better hoping my brain will cooperate and I’ll sound somewhat intelligent. Wish me luck!
What’s Your Mothering Style
H/T to Dakota
MotherStyle has a quiz to help determine your mothering type. Here’s mine
INFP —The “Tuned In†Mother
“Inside our children, I believe, is a truth that tells them what’s best for them. I am always listening for that truth.â€
Aware, astute, and understanding, the INFP mother is sensitive to her child’s needs, feelings, and perceptions. By observing and listening to the cues of the whole child, she is “tuned in†and naturally develops an intuitive feel for what he or she needs. Responsive and helpful as well, she tends patiently to those needs as they arise.
The INFP mother is comfortable letting her children follow their own course of development and make their own choices. She offers encouragement and uses her insights to head off trouble and difficult issues.
The INFP mother takes vicarious pleasure giving her children good experiences and watching them enjoy childhood. She’s happiest creating pleasant, memorable times for the whole family.
I don’t know about patient (it’s definitely not one of my virtues), but I do tend to be an AP parent. I really like watching Pumpkinhead develop and encouraging him to go with his natural talents. As I’ve mentioned, we were cosleepers and we also took a pretty laid back stance to potty training and other issues. I think it helps that he’s a pretty easygoing child. We were very lucky that he just decided to start potty training one day. We never pushed the issue and he just decided it was time. That said, I know I was a lot like him and then my brother came along and blew my parents’ parenting style out of the water.
He is the complete opposite of me and none of what they did with him worked with me so who knows what will happen if we have additional kids?


