Archive for July, 2007

July 31st, 2007  Posted at   Law School

It’s coming up to exam time and the work has suddenly increased significantly. I’m at that tired point where nothing makes sense and I can’t express any coherent thought. I was up early and down late all weekend studying. I got up at 4 a.m. yesterday to study before work, but was dead by class and could barely concentrate. This morning I let myself sleep. Perhaps not the best plan in terms of getting things done, but definitely needed. Now that my head’s a bit clearer, I need to refocus and figure out a study timetable for the rest of the days between now and exams.

July 30th, 2007  Posted at   Uncategorized

One of the things that my years in the legal field have taught me is that the people who have a successful work/life balance set boundaries firmly and often, although they know to ramp up when client needs demand it. Life at the Bar had a great post last week reviewing specific steps to achieving successful work/life balance. I really enjoy reading her blog and others because I think it’s crucial to plan ahead as much as possible. If you want balance, you have to pick a practice area that will allow for it. You have to try to figure out how much you’re willing to sacrifice to get where you want to be and know those boundaries going in. It’s just like any career – if you do a great job, they reward you with more work. This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t work hard and make sacrifices. But you should work hard at the right things and make the right sacrifices. That’s why I think it’s crucial to network with attorneys in your potential practice area who will tell you what they would do or not do and how they might have done things differently.

At my last firm, one of my associates practiced in a niche area of law and one of the firm’s largest clients only wanted him on their matters. Thing is, the associate wanted to practice yoga. A lot! So he came in at 8 and left by 6 to teach yoga several nights/week. This was unheard of, although in reality most of the other attorneys rolled in at 9:30/10 and left between 8 p.m. – 1 a.m. so it’s not much different except for the face time thing. Anyway, several years before my associate had tried to leave the firm and go to a government job. It didn’t work out and he came back, but negotiated with the managing partner to work these kinds of hours in exchange for being available when the big client needed him. Yes, he still had to push back some but he had established his worth and that really helped. Now he’s Of Counsel at the firm and still very involved in yoga, humanitarian work, and raising a young son with his wife. He’s a great role model.

July 29th, 2007  Posted at   Law School, MILS, Mommy stuff

… is at Reasonable Expectations.

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The Weekly Moms In Law School (MILS) Roundup is hosted on a rotating basis by Reasonable Expectations, PT-LawMom, and A Little Fish in Law School and is usually posted no later than Monday morning. Next week’s MILS Roundup will be right here.

July 28th, 2007  Posted at   Blogging, Mommy stuff

Have you ever read something that made you laugh so hard that you simultaneously peed a little and snorted your drink up into the nether-regions of your skull? Way late to the party, apparently, I have discovered the hilarious blog, “Oh the Joys.” Unfortunately (because I was reading it at work) the post I’m about to share is not her only post that sent me into convulsions.

If you are at all prudish, don’t click on THIS LINK. Actually, don’t read her blog if you can’t take a little sex talk mixed in with tales of babies and parenting.

July 28th, 2007  Posted at   Uncategorized

The New York Times Magazine has a really fascinating and in-depth article on the recent wave of employment discrimination cases based on parental needs. There is an especially interesting part about a state trooper who had to sue his employer in order to take the FMLA leave he was entitled to after his wife became ill during her pregnancy.

The article also gives some background on Joan Williams, founder of the Center for Work-Life Law, which has made amazing strides on behalf of parents in the workplace.

July 28th, 2007  Posted at   Uncategorized

Okay, blog readers. Tell me about the products you have found that you just can’t live without and how they help you. I’ve blogged before about my awesome Dyson. Although awfully extravagant at the time, I can say now that it was the very best purchase I made when Pumkinhead was an infant.

Today I am sitting here trying to figure out how to interact at BlogHer in Second Life (I’m there, but no one else is :???: ) and my brand new SpotBot is cleaning my carpet for me. You put it where you want it, push a button and it scrubs your carpet clean, beeping when it is done. It’s doing an awesome job! The only way it would be better is if it was full-size, but then I wouldn’t be able to do my stairs so I guess this really is perfect.

What products have you found that are just as good for making your life easier?

July 28th, 2007  Posted at   Uncategorized

I was really pleased to hear that the Latinos in Prince William Co., VA are not taking the discriminatory July 10 law laying down. The Washington Post reports that over 1,000 Latinos came together for recent community meetings to discuss the new law, organize boycotts against anti-immigrant businesses and discuss their rights and responsibilities.

On Thursday night in Manassas, more than 1,000 Latino residents voted with raised fists and cheers to stage a one-week boycott of all non-immigrant businesses in Prince William at the end of next month. The crowd first met in a church, then grew so large it had to move to a park outside. Latinos in Woodbridge and Dumfries also voted this week to stage the boycott and other actions.

The surge of activism, which also includes voter registration and citizenship drives in other communities, follows a long period of drift and uncertainty for area Latino advocates, especially since the collapse of a major immigration reform bill in the Senate last month. Opponents of illegal immigrants, who had swamped Capitol Hill with impassioned e-mails and phone calls against the bill, felt emboldened by its defeat and have pressed ahead with local measures.

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“This law is built on hate and racism,” said Ricardo Juarez, 40, a construction worker from Woodbridge and coordinator of a Virginia group called Mexicans Without Borders, who was the main speaker at the three meetings. “It can affect every one of us, and we have to defeat it. . . . Will people be asked for documents in libraries or parks or schools? If a woman is pregnant and goes to the hospital, is there a risk that the staff will report her to immigration?”

The president of the Salvadoran-American Chamber of Commerce made a great comment about the burden on legalized/U.S. citizen immigrants:

“We are like a sleeping elephant,” said Elmer Arias, president of the D.C.-based Salvadoran American Chamber of Commerce. “We who are citizens have good jobs and become comfortable. We forget that we have benefited from the community and that we have the obligation to help our people.”

July 28th, 2007  Posted at   Blogging
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I got my first blog award!! LawMummy says I’m a schmooze-worthy blogger. :mrgreen:

This honor was created by Pink Reviews to spotlight blog writers who are adept at “making an effort to be part of a conversation, as opposed to a monologue” and have “worked hard to build a reputation for themselves by commenting on other blogs, participating in blogging communities, replying to comments left on their blog and overall just doing their part to interact.”

Schmooze Award

Thanks LawMummy!

Here’s my list of bloggers I think you should really schmooze with:

Gunfighter at The View From Here
Lawyer Mama
Peanut Butter Burrito
Zuska at Parens Binibus (except she’s off to Europe, so don’t go schmooze with her today!)
Pundit Mom

Don’t leave my blog too soon, though. Leave me a comment so we can chat a little. I always love to hear what people have to say (although, as I’ve said before, I delete all the hateful anti-immigrant comments I get, and there are a lot!).

July 26th, 2007  Posted at   Uncategorized

A year after the city council of Hazelton, PA enacted legislation to attempt to “control” illegal immigration in their town, a federal judge today struck down the unconstitutional ordinance. Hopefully other towns will take note and stop enacting similar measures, at the very least because it’s not worth the costly litigation, based on today’s ruling. The Mayor of Hazelton vows to appeal the decision.

Federal District Judge James Munley said the town of Hazleton in northeastern Pennsylvania had acted unconstitutionally when it passed its Illegal Immigration Relief Act Ordinance under which businesses would be penalized for hiring illegal aliens and landlords would be fined for renting rooms to them.

The ordinance, first passed by the Hazleton City Council in July 2006, also established English as the town’s official language.

Backers of the law, led by Mayor Louis J. Barletta, argued that illegal immigration, largely from Mexico and Central America, was overburdening local schools, hospitals and social services in this town of about 30,000. They also argued that an influx of undocumented workers was also driving up crime.

“Federal law prohibits Hazleton from enforcing any of the provisions in its ordinances,” Judge Munley wrote in an eagerly awaited 206-page opinion. “Thus, we will issue a permanent injunction enjoining their enforcement.”


“This decision should be a blaring red stoplight for local officials thinking of copying Hazleton’s misguided and unconstitutional law,” said Witold Walczak, legal director of the American Civil Liberties Union of Pennsylvania, which represented the plaintiffs.

July 25th, 2007  Posted at   Law School

Good luck to Zuska, Legally Certifiable and everyone else who is taking the bar today. You can do it!!! :razz: