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Archive for June 17th, 2007

A mini rant about blog comments

17 Jun

If you’ve read my blog, you know I have a fairly liberal view on immigration and immigrants generally. I’m writing on immigration not because I want to debate my views but because it’s my way of speaking out and kind of journaling my off-the-cuff impressions of these events as they take place. Don’t try to comment on my blog entries about those “evil criminal immigrants” :evil: because I won’t approve your comment. This is my immigrant-friendly bloggy home, not a place for the right wing to vent about all that is wrong with “those people.”

If you’ve read my “About Me”, I think you have a pretty good sense of where I stand on things. I have immigrant friends, GLBT friends, Muslim friends. My sister-in-law and best friend are both African American (as is my nephew) and my husband is Hispanic. I’m Episcopalian (a faith that embraces both female and gay/lesbian clergy). I believe strongly that women can do anything men can do and that we should be afforded equal treatment under the law and by society in general.

I have a personal relationship with God but I’m not a Bible thumper and I don’t like it when people use the Lord or the Bible to try to make me feel ashamed about my views or my life choices. I believe in living your life as a witness to God in terms of your demonstrated compassion and care of others. If people see you living that way and know you have faith, then you are demonstrating your faith through your actions. Ultimately I’m just a tender-hearted girl. If I want a fight, I’ll find a social justice issue that matters to me and direct that negative energy into a positive outlet. I don’t need negativity here, thanks.

And, of course, for those of you who have only wonderful, constructive comments to make, thank you! My blog life is much richer from your input. :smile:

 
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Solo practice for work/life balance

17 Jun

Susan Carter Liebel has a post today on going solo as an option for fathers who want to be around more for their children. As usual it is a very informative and thought-provoking piece.

I have to admit that going solo is an attractive, albeit scary, idea. I love the thought of working out of my home or a nearby office in my suburban community with the flexibility to attend school plays, be a field trip chaperone, etc. I’d also love to be able to practice the kind of hands-on law I’m interested in. That said, I’m a sicko. In the medical sense. I get the weird kind of tons-of-tests-and-they-still-don’t-know-what-it-is kind of diseases. All those organs you don’t actually need to live, I no longer have. Unless Chapin can get great coverage or our Congress decides to do something about the healthcare crisis, I need the kind of good medical benefits that a mid-to-large-sized firm can provide.

My classmate wants to go solo and thinks it can be done easily right out of school if you pick the right area. I’m more cautious. I have been reading Ms. Carter Liebel’s blog, among others (see blogroll), and am definitely keeping it in mind. I’d love to copy a firm I saw that has a team of 5 or 6 women attorneys who work completely virtually from home with a virtual assistant. They meet clients at the clients’ offices or at hotel conference rooms or restaurants. I would love to support women with that kind of model, but I think it may be necessary to put in a few years learning at a firm before venturing out on my own.

 
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USCIS Delays Result from FBI Backlog

17 Jun

This article could explain why my husband has been waiting six months now for a citizenship oath date. He passed his exam and interview in January and yet we still have not heard from the USCIS. :mad: This is not the first time they’ve made us wait. While we patiently waited for his conditional green card and then his permanent green card, this time we thought we were home free when he passed his exam and the USCIS officer said, “You should be getting a letter soon with an oath date.” Ha! My father had to wait almost two years after his test to take the oath and then only because I was able to pull some strings to get a local appellate judge to conduct the ceremony in her chambers (with permission from the local USCIS office, of course).

The frustrating thing about both these cases is that they mirror the cases mentioned in today’s Washington Post. My Dad worked for a government agency with high-level security clearance and that didn’t help him. My husband has already been through an FBI background check due to the nature of his job (took six months, too!) and yet they don’t seem able to cross-reference those checks and clear him off the list. Can you say FRUSTRATING?!?! :evil: Then I read articles like this and it just makes it seem all the more likely that we’ll continue to wait, and wait, and wait. I just hope that whatever progress we’ve made isn’t negated by any legislative decisions made this year.

 
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Ode to my Dad

17 Jun

As fathers go, I think I got a choice pick. Although my mother now says that he was at a bit of a loss at what to do with me when I was an infant, I always remember him being there once I was old enough to converse with him. He picked me up from school when I was sick, coached my T-ball team, and attended every one of my school concerts and plays. He was always there with a camera to take pictures and I always knew he was proud of me.

My Dad was a scout and taught carpentry while getting his engineering degree. He was always building us something (a toy box or a bench), taking us camping, fixing the house or, later, teaching us all we could ever want to know about computers. When he was 16, he wrote a Letter to the Editor stating his conviction that the local girls should be allowed to form a rugby league. He was raised by a working mother and believed that women should be afforded equal rights, even back in the mid-1950′s when that letter must have been a bit hard to write.

Yes, he worked a lot. I always remember him bringing work home. But I also remember all the times he put the work down in order to help me with my homework or watch a little skit I’d come up with. I was a very lucky daughter who never had to question his love for me. On this Father’s Day, I’m proud to have such a smart, goofy, fun Dad who provides me with a great example to live up to as a Mother.